Xavier is a Veterinarian, and his affection for animals and irritation for humans is instantly relatable (at least for me). Samantha saves a kitten and brings her for a check up, and she has an instant connection with Xavier (in that she thinks he’s an asshole). They go on an amazing date, but Samantha is moving two thousand miles away to help care for her mom, who has dementia. The easiest thing for both of them would be to forget about each other, but neither can bring themselves to do it. His debt, his practice, and his desire to prove to his parents that he’s successful are keeping Xavier from moving to be with Samantha. She can’t leave her mom, as the family is already falling apart under the stress of providing 24/7 care.
I read another book earlier this year that included caring for someone with dementia and it made me angry because it was so unrealistic. This book nails it. The stress on the family, the unpredictability of the disease, everything. I liked the juxtaposition of Samantha and Xavier making memories together while her mom has lost so many memories. The reactions to a heroic action by Xavier were laugh-out-loud funny, and the family dramas and support were touching. Anyone who has a problem with the family considering placement in a facility, and the father’s actions, have never walked a mile in their shoes. I really enjoyed the book and didn’t want it to end. (9)
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